Cemetery Etiquette

Let us guide you through the ins and outs of your cemetery experience.

In America, though not always the case, many people choose to have their final resting place be a cemetery. This is a traditional option after death. Today, rather than being interred at a cemetery, some people choose to have their cremated remains scattered. Others have chosen to be buried at sea. Here, we are going to examine the more traditional aspects of interment and a few pointers where cemetery etiquette is concerned.

First of all, let's take a look at burial options:

  • Natural burial
  • Private mausoleum, aboveground burial
  • Cremation
  • Lawn crypt, aboveground burial
  • Community mausoleum, aboveground burial
  • Inground burial

Types of burial can consist of the following:

  • Used to support the soil around and above the casket, a burial vault
  • A grave marker of some sort
  • A space or plot where the burial of your loved one will take place is referred to as the gravesite
  • Holding the body of the deceased is a casket

In order to show sufficient respect for the dead and the living, there are a number of basic protocols that should be followed when visiting the cemetery. To ensure that you and others enjoy a peaceful, courteous experience, we're going to offer some cemetery etiquette tips.

If You Make a Mess – Clean It Up

Before you leave, clean up any wrappers that may have come from flowers, as well as any other debris. Usually, easily accessible trash cans are in most every cemetery.

Show Respect to Others

There may be other mourners present when you are at the cemetery so please be respectful. Don't stare. Give them their space, respect their privacy, and don't get in the way of their burial or recession. Additionally, turn off your cell phone.

Grave Respect

It is disrespectful to touch grave markers or monuments. Depending on their age, it could even cause damage. Do not stand on top of a burial place and be sure to walk in between the grave markers.

Practice Care When Driving

Remain off the grass with your vehicle and follow designated roadways. Watch out for other people and drive slowly. Some individuals may be consumed with grief and not paying attention to where they're walking. Move your car over to the side if another car approaches and the lane is narrow. Remain courteous and calm while driving through a cemetery.

Know the Rules

Yes, there are rules, even in cemeteries. Along with visiting hours, specific rules are usually listed on the website of a cemetery. Additionally, you may be able to find a map of the grounds if you need one. If a website isn't available, you can always call the cemetery and inquire about their regulations, rules, visiting hours, etc.

Once you know the rules and are familiar with this etiquette, feel free to share it with all who will be in attendance.

Burial and Other Services

We, at American Heritage Cemetery Funeral Home Crematory, understand that when it comes to honoring your loved ones, there is no hard and fast formula. We are flexible and are both willing and able to help guide you through the entire process after the loss of a friend or loved one. We are here to share your experience, listen to your concerns, and help you find the perfect way to honor the deceased. We can also assist in deciding which type of final arrangements should be made after the service.

Contact us today at American Heritage Cemetery Funeral Home Crematory to discuss details, ask questions, or set up an appointment.

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